I always ask do you need help or may I help you. It’s very difficult for me because I do just want to help. That first step off your high horse is gonna be a bitch honey shirt But I also understand the need to do it for yourself. I ask because I open the door for everyone
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Always happy to have a door opened for me, especially on days I need to use walker. But this is the important thing: if I am already part way out the door, do not touch door without telling me first. Chances are that I have my body weight against that door to push open for me. If you come up from behind and push door further open, That first step off your high horse is gonna be a bitch honey shirt I will be on ground. Has happened. Let me know you are there to help. I will shift weight away from door. The average person just doesn’t realize how we use leverage to open doors etc. And with our balance issues we end up on the ground… Thank you for wanting to assist, it is appreciated.
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I once got into trouble at work for not ‘helping’ someone in a wheelchair… I would stay nearby in case they needed help or say hi, sometimes (depending on their age and cause I have to do it at work) I would ask if they needed anything, but would not offer help cause I know if they need it, they would ask. I struggle with MS as well and feel the same way. There are days I get frustrated and am not content until I do everything the best I can. And then there are days where I cant even lift a finger and Im too exhausted to even stand up and I just need some assistance I have had to tell people this most of my life. I was born with a few physical challenges. I also want to do things for myself so I can continue doing them for as long as possible. I tell people if you do for me I will cease to be able to do it.