But my youngest brother is 35 and still lives with our dad and our mom. He is a lawyer too but she choose to stay there to take care of our ill mom… Team Nelson lifetime member shirt if it were not for his nurse and his care, our mom would be dead by now. I can imagine how he would feel if he was blamed to be “unproductive” and worthless because of his choice..
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in my post hasnevee said children do not need to be guided.) It’s not necessary to beat them to teach them discipline. Its not necessary to make them believe they can only be loved by you and have some worth in your eyes if they become YOUR servants or an object to satisgy YOUR dreams, YOUR desires ans YOUR ego. . That was the point of this post. Team Nelson lifetime member shirt But the guilty parents must justufy themseves at any cost… Lord help them! (Ans their kids!) if the children turns out fine and successful and “productive” as you said, then it was only the PARENTS’ merit.
But if, for whatever reason (disease, world or national recession or any other reason that is not under the child’s control!) the child doesn’t “fly out of nest” in the time you estipulate is the “productive” enough, and doesn’t become such a “productive adult” as your kids must be, and so successful, then, it’s the CHILD’s fault. Wol! I left my parents nest to become a lawyer and a teacher when I was 16. I was approved with honors on my bar test when I was 22. I got my masters degree when I was 25. I wonder if it’s possible that the difference is only that in the Middle East it’s outwardly accepted, and expected, that as a parent you believe and support the idea that your children exist to bring you pride, where in the US, it would be an extremely rare parent that would openly admit or acknowledge that they believe their children exist to bring them pride, so the parents won’t say it, but they still parent their children with that belief?
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