what a complete moron you are! According to you the ONLY people who can guide our children into leading good productive people are licensed therapists? Fishing Gotta love a good Pole dance shirt And the proof of your falsehoods is the ENTIRETY of human existence wherein parents, god parents uncles teachers ministers neighbors have shown the younger generations how to be good people.
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She’s talking about guiding them and teaching them (yes!) but not controlling them to the point that they become neurotic and controlled. Think of FORCING a child through guilt, manipulation and withholding love to say join the family business or get a law degree because you wanted one when they might be a born actor or chef. Support them in that, not want YOU want. See the difference? Fishing Gotta love a good Pole dance shirt to use some of your own words in regards to children getting “liberal arts degrees” can also be viewed that kids get these degrees because their parents wanted them to get “a degree” “any degree” and they were not yet ready to get ANY degree, but chose BA’s because they were pushed to get something.
if children are entitled or jerks, they are learning it somewhere, typically from their primary caregivers. They are not born this way. They are little sponges who model/mirror their parents. Most people have not done their work. Their healing. So they parent from their own dysfunctions or limitations. If you read this woman’s book, you could likely learn a lot about why children turn out the way that they do. kids only act like little ungrateful jerks if you treat them like they are. There’s a difference between letting a kid be disrespectful and letting a kid decide whether they want to do ballet or play guitar. She’s not saying don’t guide your kids and let them be little assholes to everyone. She’s simply saying let them be who they are. Kids come into this world knowing nothing so if they become little jerks than that is learned behavior. It’s your job as a parent to set an example not only by words but actions. Ever heard the phrase actions speak louder than words?
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