I think it has to do with how he was raised… a lot of people leave the boy with no real responsibility like house chores and they end up being a burden on the future wives.. Everybody has that aunt that will cut everyone out shirt also some men weren’t taught that it’s his job to be just as much as an adult as the woman… a lot of men have the expectations that house work in a woman’s job.. yet most wont stop you from having a full time job either … it’s sad
Everybody has that aunt that will cut everyone out shirt
I know quite a few. They not only expect their wives to handle everything that has to do with cleaning, children, and cooking they also work full time. Just because you don’t know anyone who acts like that doesn’t mean they are no men that do this. The world is bigger than your immediate friends and family. and naturally 90% females are taught cleaning , washing dishes etc in their younger years. Most men aren’t taught because some believe certain things are “woman’s work “ and that’s not the case. I know several men that live alone , but they cook, clean and do laundry and keep a spotless home . They learned it from basic common sense and survival.
What tends to happen is, especially in African homes , the girls are taught to be wives and clean after their father , their brothers and even the bet . Cook for everyon , clean for everyon . Wash for everyone . Everybody has that aunt that will cut everyone out shirt Because we taught it would make you a better wife . While men/ boys come back home and dirty the house , leave their clothes everywhere , and still expect food on the table for them . They teach woman to be wives and don’t teach men to be husbands.