This is how my relationship with my mother is. It’s something I’m still working on being ok with. Once you realize that our parents are just flawed humans, just like we are in ways, it gets a little easier. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with me but I still default back to the old way of thinking that it’s my fault, all the time. Cow if my mouth doesn’t say it my face definitely will shirt At 7 I chose to live with my father when they divorced. So I blame myself for the lack of relationship. I do know it goes much deeper than that though.
Cow if my mouth doesn’t say it my face definitely will shirt
No matter what I do for my Dad, how much I try, how many doctor’s appointments I take him to…it doesn’t matter. Nothing was ever good enough for him, no matter how hard I tried, nothing impressed him, not my straight A’s, not being picked for the
Get it and hang out
Your daughter will be stronger because of the strength YOU have shown her. I have a married friend who kept a house with chaos and discord but she thought her kids would benefit from them not divorcing. Her daughter got to hear her Dad and Mom fight and berate each other all the time. So she learned that kind of behavior is normal. Now she is an adult, and her Mom tells me about the jerks her daughter dates.
You are doing your best for your daughter,Kristen. Don’t doubt it for a minute.