I was not married that long but I still feel the same. Haven’t been able to get rid of her things as I hope my family can be together Snoopy be careful when you blindly follow the masses. again even if she has loved my friend of 14years and moved in with him 4days after leaving me. I still love her and our things
Snoopy be careful when you blindly follow the masses shirt
Tried to talk to friends and family but I guess they’ve heard all before. All they can say move on with my life how can I. I can’t even bring myself to get rid of his things. If I do it is like giving away a part of him. Snoopy be careful when you blindly follow the masses. Everyone says time heals but I don’t so every day is a struggle for me. If don’t know how to go on without him. We were married for forty-five year and I miss him so much. Breathe and breathe as we learn to love our self one day at a time love yourself this what i am working on all so focus on what you can control. It is good to let go of his things really it might be hard but it is the 1st step of the meany to letting go. Letting go is hard it is even harder since u have been with him that long. There is always a bright side to this it will come in time u just havent gone thrue the steps of morning if I rememeber right there are 4 steps of moring they are feelings u must go thru to let go I had my ex’s stuff for over a year but I just woke up one day it was all packed I just started to take things to donate gave things away it was hard at 1st but the more it sat in the front room all 3 boxes the more I held off moving on it has been 16 months now each day it gets better I keep busy I go to drop in centers I have been working on my dreams that I held off for years u will never forget u just have to know when to think about things and when not to I have gotten stronger since then I still think of her I miss her very much the love for her is still there but I have to say she is happy now thats all that matters her happyness Im happy and free some girl I seen in the store right after I had the break up she was out of a 38 year marrage I live in a small town she worked 3rd shift she has seen me grow since then she asked me how do u do it how did I get over mine we talk often u see I said the other night who said Im over her just cause Im happy on the outside doesnt mean I dont cry sometimes on the inside over her I just had to come to it she isnt comeing back u have to wake up every day more or less life goes on all the sadness isnt going to make things better they say to get rid of things that will remind u of that person like his things like I have been told u may think this is the end but really it is opening your life up to better and newer things in life maybe some one better again I will say this u cant move on
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in life tell u let go of the past and letting go dosent mean forgetting there will always be a time or place or even a smell that will remind you of that person there is that chance that there is someone out there that needs your love or can love u better now is your chance to find that someone enjoy life now for life is very short and now u can look back and say that old thing it is better to love then never have loved at all it makes very good sense if u really say it out loud not let it go around in your head. Life isn’t over it has just begun be free for a while u can live without him u have before I found out. You never need someone in your life u may want someone in your life is better but dont be in a hurry enjoy life for a while love doesn’t just doesn’t jump out at u it comes to u let it come to u there is always someone out there for u but u got to let go of the past so that person can find u