It seems like you are the one who carry some unconscious parental guilt and is trying to justify yourself. And yes: I have no idea how you raise your achiviers children, Once upon a time I was sweet and innocent then I started working at walmart shirt but your defensive answer shows you might have some unconscious guilt…I just hope your kids don’t get beaten in the name to please your expectations about what they need to do to or to become in order to deserve being unconditionally loved by you.
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what I wrote and what I advocate on my post. Another thing: you are absolutely right that “I do not know how everybody else was raised.” But as a retired children’s teacher and a lawyer and professor expert on children’s and human’s rights , I DO KNOW what MANY children go through everyday, because 30 years of a career dealing with this made me see and deal with this EVERYDAY. Plus: you do NOT know how I was raised either. Did I tell somewhere my parents were “horrible”? Once upon a time I was sweet and innocent then I started working at walmart shirt I didn’t mention that because they are great people and did their best. I wrote that post based on what I saw and see everyday, around me, within my family circle, so I am speaking for what I see. If there is something, some hidden guilt ocult in your own consciousness that makes you become so defensive about my post, you might secretly be one of the parents who treats your children as robots and is trying to make ME feel guilty for being an ungrateful child who called her parents “horrible.” Think about that.
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Once the child is an adult, their life is THEIR responsibility, not the parents. If you are 35 and still doing what mommy and daddy tell you to do, then that is on YOU, not on the parents. Once you are an adult you should ACT like an adult an express your own opinions, free will and freedom of choice. Your parents can not console into your brain when you are an adult and change your programming to fit the parents desires. It is the parents job to prepare you to leave the nest, it is the CHILD’S job to jump out of the nest and fly on your own wings.