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Makes me feel sick to the stomach. While he can always give his opinion, he has no business to impose on her. She is not his 5 yr old child !! Anyways Yeah the abuser calls it “care and concern”, while in reality it is emotional abuse. How do you know it’s not me that is the problem? I had a very traumatic childhood, I still feel traumatised but am slowly working through it with ongoing counseling. Nakatomi plaza Christmas Party 1988 We just have so many ups and downs emotionally that I often feel very alone when I’m kicked off the team and he says the most heart wrenching stuff (no physical abuse). Maybe it’s just me
I lived this life for 20 plus years with my abusive husband and it bought back the feelings of fear anxiety…so hard to watch. I was physically and mentally abused! When I finally found the courage to leave, move out on my own…I was Extatic but 2 weeks later he cried to everyone and anyone who would listen to his lies about me told our kids I was a horrid person who cheated and stole from him…2 weeks later, he went to florida on vacation because I hurt him so bad he told everyone…he drank all day then so drunk he walked in front of oncoming traffic on a 6 lane highway!!! All I ever did was love this man and wanted him to love me. My kids blamed me for his death. Some don’t know it was suicide. He called every one in my family(who he hated) and said I am a horrible person and that I mess with other men! I never really told anyone what I went thru the terror he put me thru! Post traumatic stress is bad. Ive been told by someone I deserved to be abused by my husband because I keep defending myself!!! Anyone living this…please get help! Don’t hide it and go thru what I did. It is too hard to put your life back together when you can’t even find all the pieces.