it would be naive to say we will Only believe them to be racist when they stand in a line holding hands stating it blatantly, My vocabulary during work what-are you sure-ok-shut the fuck i’m done shirt Those slurs are the legacy their children will Hear and see and ultimately Believe [Unless someone says and you See there is No such thing as harmless racial Slurs!)
My vocabulary during work what-are you sure-ok-shut the fuck i’m done shirt
I am not sure I am the best person to ask about this. The use of certain racial words is a very sensitive topic to lots of people. I just know that the use of various racial slurs is not something I want to be associated with as those words can be incredibly offensive. Whether or not other people can use them or when is it appropriate to use them… well, honestly, I do not know. Sorry I cannot be of more help. I hear you, and you seem to be a very diplomatic person(a good trait i suppose) and I am all for Not judging a persons’ whole Being Based on a few words said in the heat of a disagreement…
That being said How do you marry this statement “we know that these people sometimes use the “n” word ..& they treat people of other races well(i presume the eating lunch with them) ” I imagine hitler had friends that he joked with and maybe a jew or two whose company he didnt mind My vocabulary during work what-are you sure-ok-shut the fuck i’m done shirt ( I use hitler because the history is readily available…but my goodness the Evil that can be birthed by seemingly jolly fellows who just use “bad” words…using racial slurs is Not the problem:- It is the Symptom , because by Saying it Implies You See and therefore Believe.
Take it and hang out with it