I’d rather hurt them than continue to allow myself hurt. Granted two wrongs don’t make a right but ya need to think of yourself at some point. Kindness without compassion is not kindness. Live with, in Spirit and no hurt is necessary.
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This is difficult because my natural tendency is to put others first. I’ve come to resent this because humanity is mainly made up of takers. So I’m learning to modify being a giver. It’s funny how I’m now seen as self-centered. Even though it goes against my grain, I have accepted that this is their reality. It’s okay even though I may not agree. It’s time for me to live my life and put myself first. If people don’t like it, it is their choice. Life is better in flip flops with malibu. My journey has been one of learning true forgiveness is a lot easier said than done. If you want n long to be obedient to God.
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I had to kinda turn my heart inside out if you will. And it can be painful. Then I think what Christ did for me. And that’s the very least I could do is to forgive where this due in matters of the heart. It’s a day to day process. When I die to self. I can forgive anywhere n anytime in any situation. Of course, it’s a costly life but oh so worth it. I’m truly grateful. I get to be a small part of God’s plan. What an honor. I’ve given my all and more to, what I thought are friends, who never appreciated my deeds and only wanted more. No More! I am limiting my generosity now and focus more on my own needs as those beneficiaries from the past have no time for my needs at this time. I disagree about the hurting someone, its true that you should live your life for you first, but one does not have to hurt someone in doing that. It seems to me to be a cop out of a break up and the person may just want to justify hurting the person they dumped for another. Lol so therefore that person wasn’t honest with the one they hurt. Anyway there is.a better way to make both happy ya just gotta look for it.