She never said don’t guide and support she is speaking on parents that reflect there goals wants and desires in the their children and Dear bonus Dad thank you for being my step dad shirt don’t allow their children to become who they r as opposed who the parent may have wanted to be or had become
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Before completely disagreeing with this video kindly consider following questions: How do we know that we know the right direction? In what direction the growth mindset be What rules are the right rules? Which path is the right one? from my end it looks as if you were referring to me in your “the person above…missed the point of the video” (or something to that effect… Dear bonus Dad thank you for being my step dad shirt this ridiculous thread is so long i can’t see that AND type this response at the same time…was even hard to find the right place in the thread again from the notifications)…and if you were…i think you missed my point entirely and should read what my first comment out in the main thread about the actual video was..i got the video 100% it’s excellent…
my comment was in response to the one who started this subthread of insane people who didn’t get it though..lol I think you missed the point. You do have the right idea, however this video did not say to not do any of what you mentioned, it said to embrace your child for who they are, not what you expect them to be. One cannot raise a child with all of your indications without allowing a child to be who they truly are. but whose direction is right to follow. the world the kids are living in is not the world you grew up in. your beliefs are based on your experiences, the kids are having different experiences. Ask yourself if your beliefs are based on your own fears of not being enough, of not finding your true purpose or seeking love. that is not at all what she is saying.