It is not up to the man to suffer this woman’s issues & it’s a subject I’m well aware of. It is for the woman to do her own inner healing and become whole again before she enters into a relationship because bringing that baggage into it no matter how good the guy is will only make for a toxic partnership. It is our own responsibility to fix ourselves.
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Emotional healing takes focus & dedication from the person who is broken not fair or right to expect another to just suffer being mistreated simply to prove they’re one of the good guys. The person must first love themselves and find peace within & contentment in themselves then they won’t impose all the past crap onto the person they want to love. Love is not expecting a person to suffer your emotional baggage, it is fixing those issues so that they won’t suffer at your hands. It’s not correct to say that to love a woman who’s hard to love you must accept this & that behavior from her to prove you’re worthy! Dear aunt thanks for being my aunt if I had a different aunt. How about she take some responsibility for her own happiness & realize that nobody else can fix her. Furthermore,
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I’m in no way implying that messed up individuals do not or should not have relationships. I am simply saying that unless they resolve inner demons then the relationship will be toxic for all involved and that’s no way to live a life. Finding solutions to the behavioral habits that many of us hurt people use as defensive mechanisms is key because I do not feel we should expect our partners to just suffer it so that we can see that they do love us! If we learn to love ourselves & let go of certain things in our past then that would make us feel worthy of love & not enter into destructive patterns. It’s not up to another to make us happy it is from within.