Who doesn’t need to be dependent on a man, but who would choose to be an equal with him for life. I wanted a partner, not a Keeper. All i want for christmas is my grandma He needed to be a Keeper, not a partner. We can’t all have tha happily ever after tho, I guess
All i want for christmas is my grandma shirt
I can agree that if you possess some bad habits, or annoying behavior, then yes, changing them may save you the love of your life. Not fit enough? By all means, something worthwhile to achieve, for both of you. There are some personality traits that you can’t just change without changing who you are. A narcissist can’t become a giving humble person. Period. All i want for christmas is my grandma They have that ‘thing’ that won’t allow them to. I can’t stress to my kids enough how important it is to know yourself and experience life as a single person before you commit to a partner. Find you. Find what makes you happy, what kind of person you’re attracted to, before choosing someone that 10 years from now, will be your punching bag. I was married for almost 22 years to someone who admitted he didn’t find my big boned build attractive.
For your sweet grandma
That he preferred blondes, and shy, naive petite women. That had he possessed a set of balls, he would have ‘kicked me out 25 years ago’. We shared a love of the outdoors, animals, music, desire for a family etc. But my basic, outgoing, independent personality, was not for him. He wanted someone who needed him to protect her, someone who could let him be the man, a role he could feel big and strong about. I get it, I really do, men are biologically designed to master that role. But I also know that my life and history have made me the kind of woman who does for herself.